Increase confidence & clarity with your critical conversations

If you would like to expand your influence and overall impact when communicating with others then my Embracing Assertiveness guide is a ‘must read’.


Increase confidence & clarity with your critical conversations

If you would like to expand your influence and overall impact when communicating with others then my Embracing Assertiveness guide is a ‘must read’.


Are you ready to...

  • Increase your confidence, clarity and feeling of control with your critical conversations;
  • ​​​Strengthen your self-esteem by authentically expressing your needs, perspectives and what is important to you;
  • ​​Free your mind from unnecessary ruminating regarding what you could have said and/or will say next time;
  • ​Advance personal and professional goals by asking for what you ideally want and prioritising what is important to you

Are you ready to...

  • Increase your confidence, clarity and feeling of control with your critical conversations;
  • ​​​Strengthen your self-esteem by authentically expressing your needs, perspectives and what is important to you;
  • Reclaim valuable time for what matters most to you by saying NO to requests you would rather not oblige; 
  • ​​Free your mind from unnecessary ruminating regarding what you could have said and/or will say next time;
  • ​Cultivate honest and authentic relationships by resolving issues in the moment and not allowing resentment to build up (an inevitable outcome when problems are left unaddressed). 
  • ​Advance personal and professional goals by asking for what you ideally want and prioritising what is important to you;
  • ​​Increase your overall feeling of wellbeing by removing the internal conflict that arises from downplaying and/or dismissing the validity of your own perspectives, needs and requests. 
​If so - my Guide offers a solution that has worked for me and many of my clients in both their personal and professional life - and I believe it can help you too!

Embracing assertiveness:

  • ​Assumes zero previous experience: the Guide offers a step-by-step approach which is simple to follow - even if you have never been an ‘assertive person’!
  • ​The Guide requires limited time and effort to read: even if you have limited headspace to take on something new.
  • ​It doesn’t require you to be ‘aggressive’: a common fear associated with increasing assertiveness.
  • ​Strengthens (as opposed to damages) relationships: While you can't control how others will react,  the approach I outline not only acknowledges the needs, concerns and requests of others but also provides the opportunity to explore their perspective and  as a part of the discussion.
  • ​​It is equally applicable to both your personal and professional life!

What differentiates my approach?

I have over 10 years experience coaching Leaders, Executives and CEO's and hold the Associate Certified Coach (ACC) credential with the International Coach Federation – which demonstrates a commitment to an international standard of excellence in coaching practice and ongoing professional development.

This is strengthened by more than 15 years experience working as a Consultant with a focus on leadership development and programs to enhance individual and team performance.

This means that I am not just presenting interesting research and best practice principles but outlining the information in a way which encourages you to actively reflect on your own situation, prioritise areas for focus, and most importantly, to translate your best intentions into action. 

What differentiates my approach?

I have over 10 years experience coaching  Leaders, Executives and CEO's and hold the Associate Certified Coach (ACC) credential with the International Coach Federation – which demonstrates a commitment to an international standard of excellence in coaching practice and ongoing professional development.

This is strengthened by more than 15 years experience working as a Consultant  with a focus on leadership development and  programs to enhance individual and team performance. 

This means that I am not just presenting interesting research and best practice principles  but outlining the information in a way which encourages you to actively reflect on your own situation, prioritise areas for focus, and most importantly, to translate your best intentions into action!

So with that said, let me tell you exactly what you are getting…

  • The Mindset ‘reset’: addressing common misconceptions related to the assertive communication style (Page 4).
  • ​Quantifying the benefits: How practicing assertiveness stands to positively impact ALL aspects of your life (Page 6).
  • ​Three golden rules for communication: simple tweaks to increase clarity and impact with your personal and professional conversations (Page 8).
  • ​Five steps to practicing assertiveness: how to frame an assertive statement in a way which increases the liklihood that people will be open and willing to consider what you have to say  (page 12).
  • ​​Reinforcing boundaries and standing your ground in cases where repeated requests have been ignored and/or immediate action is required (page 18).
  • ​Saying ‘NO’ - Learn three approaches for respectfully declining requests (Page 22).
  • ​Deciding when and with whom to be assertive and outlining the situations where a different approach may be preferable (page 24).
  • ​Harnessing the opportunity and quantifying what it is costing you by NOT being assertive (page 25).
  • ​Taking the leap and embracing change one manageable step at a time (page 26).
  • ​Your assertiveness game plan: translating best intentions into action (Page 27).

DOES THE METHOD WORK?

The frameworks and strategies detailed in my Guide are informed by research, best-practice and stands to offer many benefits.

What I am sharing with you requires an investment of your time and a commitment to put the principles outlined into practice. In return you will receive a solution that has worked for me and many of my coaching clients in both their personal and professional life - and I believe it can help you to!

I also equally understand the hesitation and ingrained beliefs that make changes like ‘increasing assertiveness’ feel almost insurmountable.
For all of my teenage years and well into my 20’s my approach to interacting with others was characterised by:
  • Being quiet and reserved;
  • ​Feeling the need to always saying ‘yes’ to friends and colleagues;
  • ​Fumbling my way through important conversations and requests;
  • ​Being criticised for not standing up for myself;
  • ​​Preferring to walk away or back down to avoid any potential conflict;
  • ​Enviously watching others make progress with their ambitions and standing up for what is important them; and
  • Feeling the need to apologise whenever I did muster the courage to make a request or offer an alternative view point...

But now i:

  • Seize opportunities to ‘speak up and stand-out!’: Even if my perspective / needs / requests are different to the people around me;
  • ​Succinctly outline my perspective / needs/ requests in a way which clearly communicates to others my point of view and what I would like to happen, while also being respectful to the needs of others.
  • ​Regularly reinforce boundaries when repeated requests are ignored and/or a situation requires urgent attention.
  • ​Confidently say NO to requests without feeling the need to apologies or provide excessive explanations. 

And, most importantly…

I have reclaimed my ‘audacious' goals by prioritising how and where I allocate my time to ensure I am focusing on what matters most to me.

And guess what? When I started practicing assertiveness I wasn’t criticised for being aggressive, and I didn’t experience a mass exodus of family and friends.

To my surprise I found most people were actually welcoming of my ideas and requests and, what really took me back, was when I started to receive compliments for how I asserted myself in situations!

Learning how to frame your concerns / feelings & thoughts / requests in an assertive way is just the beginning...

One of my coaching clients used this exact approach to express her concerns and dissatisfaction with her current job role, make a request to secure a position working on a career defining project while also successfully negotiating a pay rise for the expanded responsibilities!

Another client used this approach to finally speak up and let her family know that she no longer wanted to ALWAYS be the default baby-sitter and chief holiday entertainment officer for her nieces and nephews, alleviating the ongoing burden of feeling increasingly resentful but not knowing how to say something without offending her family.

I personally use this exact approach on a daily basis to benefit my personal and professional life - in a way which achieves my goals while simultaneously strengthening my relationships. 

Not sure if you have the time?

Well think about how much is it costing you to NOT be assertive? 

In a regular month, how frequently do you: 
  • Have conversations where you walk away thinking ‘I wish I would have said’ and are left ruminating over the conversation for hours, if not days.
  • ​Put up with unfavourable behaviour or outcomes because you are concerned that if you point it out, you will cause offence / issues.
  • ​Settle for less than what you ideally want as you not sure how to frame what your requests.
  • ​Get frustrated when your boundaries are tested but are unsure how to reinforce what matters most to you….
Multiply this number by 12 to get a sense of how this impacts you over a year, let alone a lifetime.

The approach outlined in this guide, when put into practice, has the capacity to support you to reclaim time and confidence to focus on the things that matter most.

Interested?

Your upfront investment for the Guide is $4.90.

As soon as you place your order, you will receive an email with a link to immediately download a copy of the Guide without having to wait for a hard copy in the mail.

Oh, and in case you're wondering...

THERE IS NO CATCH!

I am offering my Guide, for $4.90 so you can see for yourself how I support my clients to  express what they really think & feel, ask for what they really want, say NO and reinforce personal boundaries.

My hope is that is you will love the approach, get great results and we might work together in the future!

The Boldest Guarantee

I 100% Guarantee my Guide will provide a clear approach to support you with
increasing your assertiveness, or I will refund your $4.90 with no questions asked.

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I appreciate you taking the time to read this and hope to connect with you soon!
~ Katheryn 
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